With tremendous sadness, we announce the passing of Sydney Roy Baker. Syd passed away at the Kiwanis Pavilion in Victoria, where he had resided for the past year, at age 88.
Syd was born in Romford, Essex, England on October 26, 1933. His early life was not a kind one and he was taken into the care of Barnardo’s children’s homes at the age of 2 years 4 months. He was proud to be a Barnardo boy and strongly believed that they gave him a solid foundation on which to build his life. The navy was chosen for him for his early career path, and he went to Watts Naval Training School at age 12 and into the Royal Navy at age 15. While on leave in Aberdeen, Scotland, he met Daisy Gray, his Daisy, and they married on August 20, 1954. Daisy’s family embraced him and made him one of their own.
Syd left the navy after 10 years of service and worked as a salesman and labourer. When he landed a job at the ICI plant in Stockton-on-Tees, England, Syd and Daisy were able to save some money and plan a move to Canada in search of a better life for their family. The move to Calgary in 1967 was all they could have hoped for and more. Fabulous friendships were made and they settled well. Syd worked for Petro Canada, both in Calgary and Moose Jaw until his early retirement in 1986.
Moving to Sidney, BC to retire, the good life was really in full swing. Syd kept himself busy tending his own beautiful garden and gardening for many other people too, hiking with a local group, entertaining and visiting a wonderful group of friends, and walking – always walking!
Syd decided in 1996 to trace his family history. After more than 60 years of separation and with the assistance of Barnardo’s and the Salvation Army, he discovered that he had four brothers and a sister. He renewed contact with his siblings and their families. He built very special bonds with his surviving brothers as well as his nieces and nephews. Because of his gratitude towards Barnardo’s, Syd decided to get involved with British Home Children Canada, helping many individuals to start their own searches for their lost family members. Syd, with great assistance from Daisy, presented information sessions to many local groups. A couple of notable invitations he received were from the Canadian government to attend a reception to mark The Year of the British Home Child in Ottawa in 2010 and another to attend a garden party at Buckingham Palace in 2016 to commemorate the 150th anniversary of the founding of Barnardo’s.
Syd is survived by his loving daughter and son-in-law, Karen and David; his grandchildren whom he adored, Lindsey and Kent; and his precious great grandson, Brody. He was predeceased by his true love, wife Daisy in 2008, and by his daughter, Angela in 2018.
A life well lived, “Sydney from Sidney” had a smile for everyone and always a story to share. He was ready and willing to lend a helping hand to anyone. He will be remembered for his love of family, friends, and his kindness to all, and he will be greatly missed.
The family wishes to extend their heartfelt gratitude to all of the staff at The Kiwanis Pavilion. Every single staff member treated Syd with care and compassion, and we always felt he was loved and valued.
Syd’s remains will be placed alongside Daisy’s during a short service held at the graveside at 11:30 a.m. on Friday, December 3 at Holy Trinity Anglican Church in North Saanich.
Memorial donations may be made to The Kiwanis Pavilion, 3034 Cedar Hill Rd, Victoria, BC V8T 3J3, http://www.kiwanispavilion.ca/get-involved/donate ; The Alzheimer Society of British Columbia https://alzheimer.ca/bc/en ; Barnardo’s https://donate.barnardos.org.uk/ ; or a charity of your choice.
Hello Karen I just seen this sorry for your loss. My uncle Dusty spoke about your mom and dad all the time when i found him though my family history search.. take care.
Thank you, Heather. Dad and Mum spoke fondly of their visits with Dusty and Laura. How wonderful to find that family connection! Take care.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences from the Mathews family. Syd was a great friend to my mother Brenda & my step father Douglas Stonham. Syd came to help out with Mom’s garden on Randle’s Lane where the coffee breaks got longer & longer as they became such good friends. Also my nephew Randy Mathews replaced Syd’s roof along with some of his neighbours I’m told. Syd did our family the honour of speaking at our Mother’s funeral at Holy Trinity Church in November 2011 which gave us all such comfort. Syd will always be remembered for his bright smile & gentlemanly manner in everything he did holding his head up high. We will miss him marching proudly in the Sidney Remembrance Day parade. Merridy Mathews-Lloyd
Thank you, Merridy. I remember my dad speaking fondly of your mother and step-father. How lovely that they had such a great friendship and connection!
Dear Karen, I have just learned today of your Dad’s passing and am deeply saddened, despite his passing not being unexpected. Sydney will remain in the memories of many folks here in Sidney and I’m sure with many others beyond Sidney, too. David
Thank you, David. Dad very much enjoyed visiting with you.
Always enjoyed talking with Syd, a happy guy whenever I saw him.
Thank you, Sally. Dad enjoyed the many memorable gatherings with friends over the years.
We met Syd when we first came to Canada with our two young daughters, both Syd and Daisy were very kind to us, a wonderful man who did so much to bring awareness to British Home Children and those less fortune, he will be greatly missed by so many, be reunited with his Daisy once again
Thank you, Jacky. Mum and Dad very much enjoyed meeting you and your family.
Very sorry to hear of Sid’s passing, I miss him. My wife(now also deceased)and I used to enjoy our meetings with Syd and Daisy on walks in Resthaven Park. We also connected at Holy Trinity, and in casual meetings on local streets after Daisy had gone. We had a lot in common, as children sent to Canada from England. May he rest in peace.
Thank you, Raymond. Dad loved his walks and always enjoyed talking with his friends along the way.
Syd was a true friend to all
Thank you, Barb and Carl. Dad was very fortunate to have such great friends as you two. You shared a few laughs, that’s for sure!
I will miss Sydney,and all the nice walks we used to have. He was a man with good common sense and a great lookout of life! He was a very special and compassionate man.
He loved his garden, and producing his own crops.
Thank you, Margot. Dad enjoyed his walks with you too.
Bradley and I have very fond memories of Syd and we are so very grateful for the afternoon tea gathering with him and his many lovely stories… He will be dearly missed…. Jemma & Bradley
Thank you, Bradley and Jemma. You were so kind to Dad, and he very much enjoyed gathering with you.
Syd was a great gentleman and now is with his Daisy again.
Hold your memories close to your heart
Ruth Steinfatt
Thank you, Ruth. You and Heinz were great friends to Mum and Dad. There were many wonderful gatherings and happy memories made. Thinking of you. Take care!